Thursday, November 24, 2011 @ 11:34:00 PM


was just thinking about these two words before i fell asleep last night.
love and respect.
do they always interlink with each other,
or it matters which word actually comes first?
When you love someone, naturally you will respect that person.
However when you respect someone, you not necessarily need to love the person.
Just like a teacher, you respect the teacher but need not love the teacher right?
But when you respect the teacher,
usually is because the teacher is really nice or they crack funny jokes in lessons.
You won't really wanna respect them when they always nag at you
and always go into bad mood swings.
You will just roll eyes and not bother about them right?
so that means no respect for the teachers
but just acknowledging the fact that they are there teaching you
and you greet them just for the sake of it right?

On the other hand,
loving someone will give you a higher chance of respecting the person.
not only you will not against the person's wishes.
when the person wants something else against your wishes,
because of your respectfulness and love,
you will just give in.

so which has a greater factor?
because you love the person
or because you respect the person more?
such a confusing thought.